Saturday night, I got a text from Dave. (The guy who basically had a girlfriend the whole time he was trying to date me). As soon as I saw his name, I was slightly annoyed because I won't lie, I still feel some type of way because of the way our "friendship" ended. (I'm not sure what else to call it).


Me: What's her name?
Dave: Hanging out like freaking u
Me: Oh lol, no I'm good...lol
Dave: Yea I figure that but she made me text u.
Ok, let me explain this text... When he text me, I thought he was saying that 1 of his friends, that maybe he introduced me too, wanted to hang out, as in link up and do girl stuff, like go out or go to the movies or something. Dave has a lot of friends and his female friends are women that we went to college with that I didn't know in college. Maybe I am naive, but some of his female friends are very nice and there are a couple that I would hang out with because we have a lot in common. I definitely didn't think that he was texting me to hook me up with a female to have sex with...
All I could do was laugh because I really wanted to curse him out. I am straight and I am confident enough in my sexuality to say that another woman is pretty or dresses well, but I'm not the least bit interested in starting a relationship with a woman. One of my best friends is a lesbian and I love her to death, but I'm just not into women like that. Women are sensitive, emotional, and act crazy on their periods...I have enough work dealing with my own emotions and attitude, why the hell would I want to date another woman and deal with all her emotions too LOL!
Now, I don't know if he was trying to be funny, or if he was trying to get a rise out of me, or if he just wanted to say something and see if I would respond, or if he just wanted to see if I would try this with 1 of his friends....All I know is that I was offended that he would try and set me up with someone for sex....is he friggin serious?! Something told me to ignore him when I saw his text pop up on my phone, but I figured it was just innocent. I'm starting to believe that nothing involving Dave is innocent.
I don't like to argue...but maybe I should have said:


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